How to maintain a happy relationship? Have you ever wondered what the keys to relationship success or failure are? Or why do few people maintain easily emotionally fulfilling and happy romantic relationships while others have issues and trouble finding and “keeping” their partner? The answer lies in the strength of their Venus.
Ever since I became an astrologer, I’ve been doing countless research, observing people’s behavior, collecting experiences, and analyzing their natal charts to figure out what makes someone lucky in love. While others always find themselves in drama and chaos on the relationship front.
Without long astrological explanations, I would like to share the results of my studies and research in a practical and “user-friendly” form.
Basically, we can separate people into two groups. In the first group are those with strong Venus– the planet of love- in their natal chart. Those are the bunch of people who seem lucky in love and are usually in long-term and harmonious relationships. The larger numbers of individuals are in the other group. Those have quite weak Venus in their natal chart and face rather painful experiences.
Those with stronger Venus by birth develop different approaches towards relationships and have different character traits and behaviors with their significant other. It is possible to learn from them to strengthen your Venus and enjoy and maintain a happy relationship or marriage. A happy relationship is your birthright; remember that!
Here you can read more about Venus.
The top 10 habits to maintain a happy relationship
1. Facing reality
Those with strong Venus don’t fall for illusions; they never find themselves in love triangles or with an emotionally unavailable partner. They have more patience in getting to know their partner before taking the relationship to the next level. Facing reality is pretty uncomfortable. However in the long run more beneficial than making up qualities of the partner that they never had.
2. Trust, support, and respect
From the males’ point of view, these three manners from their girlfriends/ wives seem to be the foundations of a stable and long-lasting relationship. The man who experiences these traits from his significant other can achieve anything. Their woman is the source of their positive energy to succeed.
3. Willing to compromise and tolerate
Being willing to compromise and tolerate something is another crucial element of a healthy relationship. But knowing what can be the subject of compromising and tolerating as well as the timing is vital. At the same time setting reasonable boundaries and standing up for yourself are equally important. It is okay to fight or have arguments, but always to find a convenient solution for both sides.
4. Maximum effort
If you frequently make all the effort – even when it’s uncomfortable- to make small gestures to your partner, take care of each other, count on each other, and show affection daily- as you were doing it when you were dating, you can keep the spark. You do not only need to give your 100% at work or when you are exercising, but you should also always do your best when investing time and energy into your relationship. The goal is not to become casual with each other and keep the passion as long as possible.
5. Space
Perhaps this is the most surprising of all. According to my research giving space to the partner should be in the top three keys to a happy relationship. This is exactly the way the partners can genuinely be themselves.
6. Acceptance
There is no place for criticizing each other but for compliments. Positive criticism is only acceptable if it’s wrapped with kind words and has a building effect on the other person, not destroying.
7. Forgiveness
You might not expect this on the list but knowing what can be subject to forgiveness and what is never is essential for a long-lasting relationship. Living together for years is inevitable to do or say something that hurts the other person. Moving on and not holding on to the grudges detoxifies the relationship.
8. Growing together
This can be so exciting. As everything is changing, nature changes, and our personality changes too. Have you ever felt that you are not the same person as you were five years ago? The crucial point in changes is to move closer to each other with your partner and not apart. It’s like the relationship has its own dynamic, and it is never stagnant.
9. Appreciation
It helps you stay humble, not take your partner for granted, and be loyal in the long run. Having a deep and genuine appreciation for your partner prevents you from engaging in innocent flirts with someone else and resisting temptations. So many benefits!
Appreciating your partner makes it easier not to focus on their flaws or not to pay too much attention to your partner’s negativity. After an argument, moreover, it’s a huge help to introduce balance and harmony to the relationship again.
10. Having the right belief system
Probably the most powerful of all the keys to relationship success. Believing that real love exists and great marriages are not only in romantic Hollywood movies makes it easier to maintain your relationship. Even more powerful is having a firm belief that you are worth a joyful, emotionally fulfilling, and harmonious marriage.
Final Thoughts
If you are unhappy in your relationship or have too much drama remember that at the end of the day, everything is just a matter of consciousness. So use your big brain and adjust your consciousness to your desires. Would you add something to the list? Drop a line in the comment section.
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