South Node in Synstray aka South Node and karmic romantic relationships
The all-time most popular topic in astrology is romantic relationships. Whether it is about the natal promise of the native, predicting the timing of possible marriage and romantic relationships, or reading synastry charts between two people.
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It’s sort of fascinating and unbelievable at the same time that with most of our romantic partners, we shared a ‘history’ in a previous life too. The astrological synastry chart- the combination of two peoples’ natal charts, which can tell how the two individuals interact with each other- doesn’t only determine their compatibility but also shows a karmic bond between them. That karmic bond is represented by the South Node– the dragon’s tail- in conjunction with the other person’s personal planet or one of the angles of the chart. The condition of that planet and the other person’s South Node, signs, and houses, which are involved tell precisely what happened between them, or better to say what is the purpose of their relationship in this lifetime.
At first sight, it looks as if we don’t have free will when it comes to dating. Well, it’s not quite true, but that is not far from the truth either.
Those relationships, the ones, which have a karmic connection– can be really good ones with genuine love or a nightmare it depends-, have a purpose.
It’s like if the souls had a contract that the following incarnation they would meet and take each other to their ‘next level’, that would be the so-called purpose. But how can it play out?
It can play out differently in every relationship, but here are a few typical examples:
It can be that one of the partners with narcissistic abuse “helps” the other person- the victim/survivor- to gain back their power, to pull himself/herself together, to survive and escape from the narcissistic partner and abuse then realize how powerful he/she can be. The survivor takes back his/her power and then can build up a good life finally. Without such painful “experiences” the person would never realize their potential.
I know it’s hard to believe that narcissistic abuse can be a “help”, but I’ve seen it! Without that “experience” the victim would never ever realize their power, never find out how powerful he/she is. And sometimes that is the lesson itself. After going through hell, and coming out alive, the person lives their lives in a different dimension, so to speak.
I’ve also seen a person with a short romantic affair, the partner helped her with great business ideas and supported her like no one else. even though the affair lasted for a short time, it brought a significant breakthrough in her business, which had a domino effect on her life.
Or the partner who shows the other how loveable he/she is, just being himself/herself, without playing roles, without wearing masks, And the partner is finally able to heal all the wounds that previous relationships caused.
In truth, most of the time the South Node connections are tough and painful lessons. Because we humans learn mostly from painful moments/lessons, we barely learn from joys and fun times… that is human nature.
Most of the time relationships with the South Node connections aren’t meant to last forever. Those still have a purpose.
The reason we have more experience on the relationship front, however, is because nowadays everything is sped up. Life is sped up. We have more workplaces, we change jobs more often, and live in different cities or even different countries in one lifetime than ever before.
You might notice that even karma is sped up. Everything happens faster. And obviously, we pay off more karmic debt in relationships too by having more than our ancestors had.
Why are so many people single nowadays?
And what about the countless people who are single for a prolonged time? It has a reason too. Well, firstly people are here on Earth to do things. Again, people have things to do besides dating. I’ve seen that sometimes those who have more of a “special mission” are deprived of all the romantic experiences in order to focus on their “duty”. Otherwise, they wouldn’t have the energy, time, or desire to do that. They are here to give value to the world first. Once they fulfill their “mission” or social responsibilities they can merit the appearance of a good partner.
Or their lessons might be to work on trust issues, to dare to open up, to learn how to be independent, or it can be something else. It is different for everyone.
Being single is the greatest and fastest way of purification if that time is used wisely. The reason is you don’t accumulate new karma, and you are able to work on some personal issues alone and don’t absorb other people’s energy.
Because what happens during intercourse from a spiritual point of view is a sort of energy exchange. The two souls change and share their energies. Not only energies. In other words, they share their fears, pains, and the good stuff as well. But if you have enough difficulties, issues, or obstacles on your plate, be careful with whose energy you absorb.
Ask yourself before you get intimate with someone if you want that person’s life. Or if you are willing to “exchange” karma with that person? Better to be careful!
What is the most beneficial approach toward romantic relationships?
So how to make sure you marry your soul mate- if you believe in that- and not your progression only? I prefer to say marry the person who was created to be your partner since the beginning of time.
Whatever the situation is now, do good, and upgrade yourself in whatever it takes and means. Go to your next level, and aim high. Make sure you don’t accumulate more karma. (Btw I like using mercy and judgment words instead of karma.)
Final Thoughts
You really don’t have to worry about your private life at all! The one, who is meant to be in your life, will be at your doorstep when the time is right. You don’t have to chase anyone, and the right one won’t reject you. The Creator- or you name it- knows no obstacles when matches couples together, mind you.
Having dramatic relationships or being single for a long time is not a curse. You are not under black magic. Hopefully. You will marvel years later how much you have upgraded through these experiences or by yourself.
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